Decoding the Secret Symbolism Hidden in Valentine's Day Bouquets: An Explanation of the Language of Flowers
Unveiling the Secret Language of Flowers in Victorian Courtship
The Victorian era, known for its strict social norms and decorum, saw the emergence of a unique form of communication – the language of flowers, or floriography. This coded system of floral symbolism, which allowed individuals to express feelings that were difficult to communicate openly, became particularly popular in England and America during the 19th century [1][3][5].
The origins of floriography can be traced back to various historical and cultural influences, including Greek and Roman mythology, Medieval Christian symbolism, and even tales from Turkish harems [1]. The practice involved assigning specific symbolic meanings to different flowers and their colors. For instance, a red rose symbolized romantic love, a daisy innocence, and a carnation strong, pure love [1][5].
In the Victorian era, courtship was heavily influenced by floriography. It provided a discreet way for suitors and lovers to express interest, admiration, or other sentiments while adhering to social norms. A single flower might indicate simplicity or initial attraction, while a bouquet could convey a richer or more complex emotional message [1][3].
Illustrated dictionaries and books of flower poetry became popular literature during this time, partly due to their literary appeal inspired by history [1]. These guides helped individuals navigate the nuanced world of floriography, ensuring that their floral gifts carried the intended emotional messages.
Beyond personal courtship, floriography extended its influence into artistic and decorative aspects of Victorian life, appearing in antique furniture, tapestries, and paintings, where floral motifs also conveyed symbolic messages of emotion and social status [2].
Authors like Jane Austen and artists like Dante Gabriel Rossetti were influenced by the symbolism of flowers, further cementing its significance during the Victorian era. The phrase "say it with flowers" was coined during this time, capturing the essence of the lost world of floriography [6].
In summary, the language of flowers was a secretive symbolic communication system that flourished in the Victorian era, offering a socially acceptable means for expressing tender emotions and courtship intentions through floral gifts and symbolism.
Key points about the history and significance of floriography in Victorian courtship:
- Origin and Era: Emerged and peaked in the 19th century Victorian England and America, influenced by prior mythological and cultural symbolism [1][3].
- Social Context: Strict social rules limited direct expression of romantic feelings; floriography provided a covert language [1][3].
- Symbolism: Each flower and color had a specific meaning—red rose (love), daisy (innocence), carnation (pure love), etc. [1][5].
- Communication Tool: Used to convey discreet messages in courtship; single flowers versus bouquets had different implications [3].
- Published Dictionaries: Flower meaning guides became popular literature, often lavish and poetic [1].
- Art and Material Culture: Floral symbols appeared in antique furniture and art, carrying emotional and social messages [2].
This tradition underscored the Victorian emphasis on decorum and subtlety, making flowers a significant emotional and cultural language during courtship.
In the Victorian era, the practice of floriography, a secret language of flowers, extended beyond courtship and influence personal lifestyles and home decor. The use of floral motifs on furniture, tapestries, and paintings was a reflection of this symbolic communication system, transcending the realm of verbal expressions [2]. Furthermore, the tradition of employing floriography as a means to convey subtle emotions continued to thrive in the home-and-garden setting, enriching the lifestyle of the English and Americans during the 19th century [1].
