Commemorating Mother's Day in Japan: Traditional Customs and Festivities
Celebrating Mother's Day in Japan: Traditions, Gift Ideas, and More
Karina James, a native of Antigua and Barbuda, finds her home in Tokyo where she is a cat butler, pre-school teacher, and writer/editor. Her love of snacks and disdain for cold weather activities make her an endearing character. In Toyko, Karina cherishes the tradition of Mother's Day, a time to honor the women who go above and beyond for their children.
Mother's Day in Japan, known as Haha no Hi, is celebrated on the second Sunday of May. Originally inspired by the American holiday, it gained popularity in Japan during the Showa era (1926-1989) as a way to honor motherhood and strengthen family bonds. The holiday commemorates Empress Kōjun, the mother of Emperor Akihito, but has aligned itself with the global celebration of Mother's Day in May.
On Mother's Day in Japan, families typically exchanging gifts and flowers, most notably carnations, which symbolize love and admiration, gratitude, warmth, purity, respect, enthusiasm, encouragement, and happiness depending on the color. Red carnations exude love and appreciation, while white carnations symbolize good luck, purity, and respect, though they are often associated with mourning and are typically avoided. Pink, yellow, and orange carnations carry their respective meanings.
In addition to flowers, heartfelt message cards are popular gifts for Mother's Day in Japan. Handmade cards from children are especially treasured, often filled with messages like "いつもありがとう," meaning "Thank you always." Craft-sessions for children to create cards and small gifts for their mothers are common in schools and kindergartens.
Beyond flowers and cards, mothers often receive thoughtful and personalized gifts. Here are some ideas tailored to different age groups:
For Moms in Their 20s to 30s (From Small Kids and Husbands)- Make an Origami Heart with a Surprise Message (DIY craft)- Handmade Mizuhiki Accessories (Mizuhiki earrings, bracelets)- Bath Salts (yuzu, matcha, or onsen minerals)
For Moms in Their 30s to 40s- Preserved Flower Making Experience- Japanese Traditional Glass (Edo Kiriko)- Japanese Tea Set
For Moms in Their 40s to 50s- Traveling Together (recommended destinations: Hitachi National Seaside Park, Ashikaga Flower Park, Oirase Gorge, Mt. Fuji)- Eating Out Together (luxurious Lunch/Dinner Cruise, Yokohama)
For Moms 50 and Over- Massage and Spa Experience- Staying at a Ryokan and Enjoying an Onsen
Regardless of age, these gift ideas incorporate traditional Japanese elements and modern sensibilities, ensuring a thoughtful and meaningful Mother's Day. Joyful Mother's Day celebrations in Japan reflect the deep appreciation for the love and support mothers provide their families.
Families in Japan frequently visit festivals, workshops, and restaurants, as these provide unique experiences that celebrate the country's rich culture, history, and lifestyle. For instance, a luxurious lunch or dinner cruise offers a chance to savor the exquisite kaiseki cuisine, while exploring traditional home-and-garden stores helps deepen the connection with Japan's roots.
In addition to eating out, mothers might also appreciate tours of historic sites, such as the beautiful Hitachi National Seaside Park or the scenic Oirase Gorge. Or they may enjoy fusion experiences that blend traditional practices with modern sensibilities, like preserving flowers or attending Edo Kiriko workshops.
For a more relaxing experience, mothers might prefer a massage and spa day at a local hotel or a stay at a Ryokan with an Onsen. These experiences allow for a rejuvenating connection with nature and the chance to immerse oneself in the soothing waters.
Moreover, shopping for gifts tailored to individual relationships, such as handmade cards and personalized accessories, contributes to the overall joy and meaning of Mother's Day. The and touring these cultural destinations, enjoying traditional foods, and partaking in unique experiences undeniably strengthen the bond between families and celebrate the love and support that mothers provide. Sumo wrestling matches and garden tours can also be fun and engaging ways to create lasting memories with loved ones.
